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Question 1
I really love my chosen career as a journalist, but i feel it is time to move onto something bigger, to a bigger newspaper. Problem is I don't know how to approach my boss. I know he'd like me to stay on (he told me) but i feel i must move on. Staying on is not healthy for me, as i get really jealous when i see my friends promoted or moving on in the next stage of their life, whilst I’m stagnant and lacking new opportunities. How do i approach him without burning bridges? …please help
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Question 2
Hey Love Doc I think I’m dating a Gold Digger. I pay for everything and I mean everything, at first I didn’t mind but now that it’s becoming expected I feel that maybe this girl is more interested in the ride than me. How do I know, and how do I bring up such a touchy subject like money with someone I’m really interested in.
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Question 3
I’m a serial dater…will I just have to settle at some stage, or is being picky ok
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Question 1
Dear love doc. My step mum comes from a big family and she has daughters who are my age. One of them I have grown particularly fond of. Is it wrong to want to develop a relationship with her?
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Question 2
My wife and I are going through a rough patch in our marriage because we haven’t been able to conceive. Recently we discovered that it was a fault of mine that we're trying to sort out. But my wife is so obsessed or focused on getting pregnant, it has caused a huge strain on our relationship and I'm worried she might leave me. How do I keep our marriage alive despite our current obstacles?
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Question 3
My partner has recently been offered a fantastic job overseas, whilst I am currently doing what I love here in NZ. I don't see how we can both continue to do what makes us happy while living so far a part. What are our options do you think?
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Question 1
In your experience what are 3 common traits that women look for in men and vice versa?
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Question 2
What happens when your partners has really close friends of the opposite sex?
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Question 3
How much of your friends opinions should play into your relationship?
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Question 1
I found out my mate cheated on his partner. I’ve since become good friends with his fiancé and feel she has a right to know. My loyalties lie with my mate and from what I know it’s not happening anymore, so should I just leave it alone? Problem is I feel like every time we all hang out it eats away at me just knowing.
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Question 2
My Boyfriend and I have been dating for 17 months, I am 23 and you could say I’m quite keen to get married relatively soon. It’s not a topic we have ever discussed and I would like to bring it up with him, but I don’t know whether the ball is fully in his court. Should I start hinting or leave it up to him - after all God is in control?
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Question 3
Life: My girlfriend of 3 years is brought up buddhist. She believes there is a god but my god is not the only one. She goes to church occasionally with me but is turned off with how much God is the centre of everything. I pray a lot. I want her to know God like I do so she understands. How to approach this?
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Question 1
Help I think I’m in love with my girlfriend's best friend… is there any scenario where you see this working?
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Question 2
Where do you draw the line in compromising things for the person you’re in a relationship with?
What are some things you wouldn’t recommend compromise on?
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Question 3
I have always had a difficult relationship with my Dad, but I feel like as I get older, the problem gets bigger. Im 22, single, working full time and living at home. As a girl, I have always wished to feel treasured and loved by my Dad and it's something I have always missed. I don't doubt that he loves me, but he doesn't show it nor does he show any respect for me. No matter how hard I try I always feel invisible to him and Im getting tired of feeling like a doormat. When I try and talk to him about it, he usually interrupts, cuts me off or gets angry and ends the conversation. What can I do so that he will see me as a real person?
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Question 1
How can two people who are so clearly different get along so well? It breaks my heart when thinking about NOT having him in my life but I dont know what the heck I am going to do anymore.
Ideas?
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Question 2
Hey my boyfriend and I just broke up, he wants to stay friends but I don’t know if I can handle that, should I stay friends with him because we do still get along well? Won’t it become too complicated when one of us starts dating someone else?
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Question 3
Life hey love doc! Im a teenage girl and have developed a habit of masturbating. Is it ok for girls to masturbate?
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