Question 1

How can two people who are so clearly different get along so well? It breaks my heart when thinking about NOT having him in my life but I dont know what the heck I am going to do anymore.

Ideas?

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Question 2

Hey my boyfriend and I just broke up, he wants to stay friends but I don’t know if I can handle that, should I stay friends with him because we do still get along well?  Won’t it become too complicated when one of us starts dating someone else?

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Question 3

Life hey love doc! Im a teenage girl and have developed a habit of masturbating. Is it ok for girls to masturbate?

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Question 1

I've been going out with a guy for a few months now and he has mentioned the L word to me a few times, but I haven't. How do you know when you're in love?

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Question 2

My wife is very driven and works around the clock, problem is we barely spend any time together. I've brought it up with her but she just says things will slow down soon but they never do. How do I get her to see me as a priority without having to sacrifice the career she works so hard for?

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Question 3

I have started having feelings for my boss and he has started flirting with me too. But is it a bad idea to mix business with pleasure so to speak?

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Question 1

This might be a strange question, that you probably haven't come across before, but I find when I got to sleep, I have inappropriate dreams about previous girlfriends, even though I'm now married. Two things - any idea why this is happening and is it a form of lusting if I seemingly have no control over it?

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Question 2

The book '50 Shades of Grey' has spiced up my sex life. How far is too far when trying to spice up your marriage?

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Question 3

Styling your partner – how far is too far?

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Question 1

My wife and I love each other but we don’t see eye to eye on many topics and we find ourselves arguing about most things, sometimes it can get a little heated and we end up fighting about something that had nothing to do with the initial argument. How do we disagree or share our differences and opinions in a way that’s healthy for our relationship, is that even possible?

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Question 2

Me and my boyfriend are both committed Christians recently he told me he used to be addicted to porn, I know he has repented and my feelings for him haven’t changed but is there anything that I need to be extra careful of in the way that I treat him or just something I can do so that he doesn’t fall into that temptation again?

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Question 3

I’ve been out with some great guys but for some reason I always find some little thin about each one that drives me crazy and eventually causes me to break up with the,. With the last guy it was because he wore polo shirts ALL the time and the guy I’m with at the moment has a hairy chest and stomach. I’m worried if I keep doing this will end up alone, how do I stop?

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Question 1

My wife and have discussed having kids and I’m all for them but she wants them now whereas I still want to travel and do many other things before we bring a little one into the world. After telling her how I felt about it she obviously didn’t care and actively stopped talking the pill without my knowledge and we are now pregnant. What’s done is done but it’s really taken its toll on our marriage her making such a big decision on her own and disregarding any of my reservations and timing issues. I don’t even know if I can trust her anymore.

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Question 2

Dear Love Doc, I have a bit of a conundrum. I am fun loving, friendly young lady who enjoys trying new things and a good dose of adventure. Trouble is that guys dont seem to see me as anything more than a 'mate'. Time and again I've become good friends with a guy, hung out etc, and just when I think he may be interested in more, he pushes me aside for a real girlfriend. Please know I am not a man eater, a boy chaser or flirter, I dont not seek short term fun in that sense. It seems like guys are happy to hang out with me, until someone else comes along and because we were nothing more than friends he is free to move on. Trouble is I get badly burned in the process, to the point now where I almost dont want to befriend guys at all in case they lead me along again. What can I do to test the waters or see the signs earlier?

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Question 3

Life, what`s your opinion on same sex marriage? I believe that God is love and marriage is about love so that`s good but the church seem to be against it?

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Question 1

My sister has started dating a real drop kick, and seems pretty smitten with him. As her older sister is it my responsibility to give her my two cents and protect her, or do I just continue to love her and allow her to maybe make her own mistakes.

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Question 3

Hey Love Doc, Dad and I haven’t ever had much of a relationship and barely speak. Recently I found out he has cancer and the diagnosis doesn’t look good, I am at sixes and sevens at the moment with no clue what to do...

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Question 1

Hey Love Doc in all your time I assume you’ve heard the saying ‘Sharing the roster’…(you know when you start dating a new partner you tell them who you’ve slept with/dated and for how long etc). Well my new partner told me the other week that before we got together she last dated a girl. That has caused a lot of questions to bounce around in my head. How much should a past relationship play into an existing one?

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Question 2

Hey Love Doc, I’m a Christian and have been for a little while now. I have a lot of non-Christian mates and the other day one of them asked why I have decided to wait until I’m married before I have sex. To be honest I didn’t really know what to say only that, that is the way that God designed it, which to him made me seem even stranger. What are some other reasons people wait, so I can be more prepared next time and maybe even encourage others to do the same?

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Question 3

Hey Love Doc, dad and I haven’t ever had much of a relationship and barely speak. Recently I found out he has cancer and the diagnosis doesn’t look good, I am at sixes and sevens at the moment with no clue what to do...

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