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Word For You Today


It's when life comes crashing in on us that we need the love, sympathy and support of friends the most. Job longed for it, but didn't get it. In the midst of his suffering his friends offered him no more than churchy clichés and pious platitudes.

Job needed what we all need when we're suffering - not someone to try and explain why things are happening or even to suggest strategies for how to cope with it, but just someone to be with us, and share our pain. That's the real meaning of sympathy: not someone saying 'there, there' but someone actually being there. Sympathy says, 'I understand what you're going through and I'm here for you.' Sympathy acknowledges our struggles and gives us the strength to overcome them.

Even when there seems to be no one around to sympathise with your struggles, there is. Jesus can, because He's been through the full spectrum of pain and suffering: 'For we do not have a High Priest who is unable to sympathise with our weaknesses, but one who in every respect has been tempted as we are, yet without sin' (Hebrews 4:15-16 ESV). Jesus is the great High Priest mentioned here. Think He hasn't been tempted like you have? Think again!

So what now? Ask the Holy Spirit to show you someone who is hurting today, and pray for an opportunity to show sympathy in an appropriate way.

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Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will... stamp on my heart with lead boots. So how do you just get on with your life with a size ten studded footprint in your soul? Well, let's take a look at the Son of God, giving sight to the blind and hearing to the deaf and raising children from the dead - and what thanks does He get? 'Devil child!' 'He's possessed - by Satan, no less!'

Yet Jesus refuses to back down. He continues to heal and help. He knows what He is here for and nothing will deter Him from it. When you know what you're here for, you'll do the same. People are entitled to their opinions but it doesn't mean they're right. Yes, they can mock you. But between you and God, you know the truth.

Jesus didn't try to look good; He was good. He didn't try to be truthful; He was truth. Despite leading this blameless life, He still faced insult. His followers did too, and they followed in His steps: 'The apostles left the Sanhedrin, rejoicing because they had been counted worthy of suffering disgrace for the Name [of Jesus]' (Acts 5:41 NIV). Words are important and they can hurt. But. God's words about you are true, and as you go through day to day life, you can probably see why it's worth having them handy.

So what now? If you're being insulted or accused by people - pray for them. Pray blessings for them. Why? Because it's the Jesus way. (And it's a pretty powerful one.)

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Working out differences with others helps to mature us in our faith. Arguments give us the chance to learn. Even disagreements can be an occasion to celebrate diversity. Some difficult stuff can be a chance to take a humble step back and 'turn the other cheek'. Yes, we certainly wouldn't advise you to go looking for ways to fall out or get stabbed in the back, but when we bring these things before God in prayer, He can really use them for our good.

Years ago, people would huddle together round a television or a record player. But technology now is geared to our own personal, even private, entertainment experience. Life can become like that too - so walled-off and private that we no longer feel we need others so much. Community, though, breaks down our walls. We come face to face with what we dislike in others and in ourselves. Working through disagreements can show us how to respect other peoples' personalities - yes, don't seek out arguments, but don't necessarily run from 'healthy debates' when they flare up. God lives in community (Father, Son, Spirit) and, made in His image, we were made for community too.

So what now? Make sure you aren't going it alone and meet regularly with other Christians. And if you're stuck in an argument you can't get out of, give it a rest for a bit. Stop thinking about what the other person has said, and think about where you could sensibly and generously give ground.

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A man was attacked by thugs. A pastor saw him and crossed the road, leaving him for dead. A bunch of other folk saw him and crossed the road. But then this random church-goer came, saw and took pity on the man. He stooped down, tucked a Gospel tract into the man's pocket and went to leave. The critically-injured man was barely conscious but held out a hand for help. The church-goer stopped and was filled with pity. So he carefully took the man through the booklet and pointed him towards some helpful resources online. Finally he invited the dying man to a seeker-friendly church service the following Sunday. Then he left. He was disappointed that the man never turned up (being, as he was, in the ICU unit of the hospital with stab wounds).

The modern church places great emphasis on getting people into church meetings and courses. We promote prayer and study and fellowship. Not that these are bad things, but what about love? Jesus never said, 'And they will know you by your extensive knowledge and inerrant doctrine.' His emphasis was on demonstrating love. Clearly the wounded man needed bandaging and medical help. William Booth who founded the Salvation Army is just one of many followers of Jesus who believed in feeding and caring for the person as well as giving them the Good News - because they are all part of the Good News.

So what now? Be alert this week to ways you can care for others. Trust that doing good will lead to opportunities to share the Gospel in a meaningful way.

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A newspaper told a story about a boy going through chemotherapy and losing his hair. In support, his classmates shaved their heads too. When he returned to school he looked no different to any of the others. The paper carried a picture of these bald-headed students, with the headline, 'Everything we do; we do together.' That's the 'law of love' Jesus talks about: 'A new command I give you: Love one another.' Even when it stings a bit.

People live by many laws. There's the 'law of revenge' which says, 'You hurt me; I hurt you harder.' There's the 'law of balance' which asks 'an eye for an eye.' But Jesus' system storms the law court. It goes against our feelings. It's a system that asks to turn a cheek and walk an extra mile. It's the kind of justice that offers to love the enemy or pray for the persecutor. The law of love means you don't have to get even; you can forgive. It isn't weak or a walk-over; it's strong enough to put others first and it chooses to withhold the punch.

1 Corinthians 13:4-7 NLT sums up love really well: 'Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful...'

So what now? Focus on one part of this 'love check-list'. What area needs brushing up on in your life? Sharpen up in this area and bring it to life for someone who needs it today.

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The first lie ever told was one that appealed directly to our oh-so-human sense of pride. Satan told Adam and Eve that, if they ate the fruit that God had told them not to, they definitely wouldn't die. He said they'd become just like God instead (that's in Genesis 3, by the way). That lie was a lie of power, and of status and, well, Adam and Eve bought it.

A lot of people would have done the same; after all, we're mostly inclined to follow our own egos. That's why Satan hasn't had to update that particular battle tactic since Eden. He still tells us lies about ourselves, to try and get the upper hand. Whether they're lies that flatter our ego and make us think we're so much better than everyone else, or lies that lead us to believe we're losers compared to everyone else, Satan tries to make us forget God's truth about us. And that's so not healthy. The only way we can have a really, truly good view of ourselves is if that view comes from God.

In the Psalms, David talks about being 'fearfully and wonderfully made' (Psalm 139:14 NIV), and that's exactly right. We are all wonderful. We are all unique, and equal. No better, and no worse, than anyone else.

So what now? YOU are wonderful, because God made you. And, because God made you, you are His, and therefore are completely on a level with every other human being. Start to live like it!

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One thing we hope you can see clear as daylight is this: choosing to believe in Jesus is life-saving. And life-changing. And that's non-negotiable. Paul tells it to us straight in Romans 8:37-39. Read it and let it sink in: '...neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future' are going to prevent Jesus from holding out His nail-pierced hand for you to reach.

'Oh, so that's it then?' you might think. 'Don't my selfless acts count for anything?' Well, first up: be careful. Make sure your self-sacrifice isn't a secret longing for recognition or hides a selfish motive. We all have to be on guard: being a 'cheerful giver' (2 Corinthians 9:7) means you shouldn't be checking your inbox every hour for a 'thanx' from the struggling person you sent a gift.

But, at the same time, it's true there are things that count toward your eternal 'reward'. Your God-inspired acts of kindness. That encouragement/gift may never come back round to you, but look at today's verse - God sees it all. And money/success/fame? They are, at best, a means of making God known to the world. They won't be coming with us to Heaven, so treat them that way, too.

So what now? Get your priorities right. Nothing is as important as putting God first and then serving others for God, and the rewards are far better than anything the world can offer.

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