Reconcile (1)

In Matthew 18:15-20, Jesus lays out three steps for confronting someone who's out of line. First step: meet that person alone (if that's not a safe option, let's not put ourselves in harm's way). Second step: if they don't listen, meet them with friends. Third step: if they still don't listen, that's when we take it to leaders. But let's show them love and grace, regardless of any lack of remorse. That's how Jesus treated the 'pagans and tax collectors' who weren't sorry for stuff they'd done wrong.

When someone has really hurt us it's hard to even want to see them. Why then bother trying to forgive? Jesus himself said: 'I can guarantee again that if two of you agree on anything here on earth, my Father in Heaven will accept it. Where two or three have come together in my name, I am there among them' (Matthew 18:19-20 GWT). Coming together and reconciling, with humility and prayer, brings a blessing. (1) God promises to be with two people in agreement. When we call someone out, the ball's in their court. If they agree that they need to reconcile, God is with both people. (2) Peace isn't possible without God's presence. Doing what Jesus instructs us isn't easy, but it brings people closer to God. Done with God's Spirit, reconciliation is incredibly healing.



So what now? Needing to reconcile with someone? Using the three steps in Matthew 18:15-20, with a heart for reconciliation, ask God to help you and watch how he brings life again.





— SCRIPTURE —

'If a brother sins against you, go to him privately.' Matthew 18:15 TLB
— SOULFOOD —

Exo 17:8-16, Ruth 2:12, Gal 3:27