
When going through difficulties (3)
Here's something else Joseph learned that we need to... We can't afford the excess baggage of bitterness. After many years, Joseph met his brothers again when they came to Egypt for grain. As they entered Joseph's presence and bowed before him, Egypt's second-in-command, they didn't recognise him. And when Joseph told them who he was, they were stunned and horrified. Here was the brother they'd tried to kill years earlier, now in a position to do whatever he wished with them. But instead, he forgave them. Why? Because Joseph knew he couldn't afford the excess baggage of bitterness.
What can we do when we're tempted to hold on to bitterness? Do what Joseph did: he held on to his faith and hope in God, believed things would work out well, and continued his spiritual life. When difficulties come our way, it is best to say, 'Lord, please handle this problem.' God can take circumstances that are completely bad and turn them around. When situations could destroy us, God can use them to develop us; he delights in turning crucifixions into resurrections.
The Bible says, 'Draw near to God and he will draw near to you' (James 4:8 NKJV). God comes by invitation, and as long as we keep talking to him and trusting him, he'll work things out for us.
So what now? If you're in conflict with someone, decide to forgive them. You cannot afford to carry the weight of bitterness on your back. And God can help you release, and be set free from, that weight.
— SCRIPTURE —
'Let all bitterness...be put away from you.' Ephesians 4:31 NKJV
— SOULFOOD —
2 Ki 1:1-4:17, Mark 11:27-33, Ps 1, Pro 13:1